SAN ANTONIO, TX – July 13, 2025 — In a shocking act of violence, Lorenzo Aleman, a 49-year-old man, is accused of fatally shooting his 41-year-old ex-wife and a 31-year-old man in what police are describing as a jealous rage over a romantic relationship. The deadly encounter unfolded just before 11:00 p.m. on Sunday, July 12, in the parking lot of an H-E-B grocery store located on South New Braunfels Street in San Antonio, Texas.
According to the San Antonio Police Department, Aleman had arranged to meet his ex-wife and the 31-year-old man, whom she was reportedly seeing. The meeting quickly escalated into an argument, and gunfire erupted moments later. Witnesses at the scene reported hearing several shots, and when police arrived, they found both victims unresponsive and suffering from gunshot wounds.
Emergency responders declared both victims dead at the scene.
The Incident: A Fatal Confrontation in the H-E-B Parking Lot
The confrontation reportedly took place in the parking lot of the H-E-B store, a busy shopping center in the southeast area of San Antonio. Witnesses told investigators that the argument began after Aleman met with his ex-wife and the 31-year-old man, believed to be the victim’s new partner.
The nature of the argument has not yet been confirmed, but police believe it was likely fueled by Aleman’s jealousy over the romantic relationship. Investigators say Aleman had been harboring resentment over the breakup, and his ex-wife’s new relationship may have been a triggering factor.
“It appears that this was a crime of passion, driven by jealousy,” said San Antonio Police Chief William McManus. “We are continuing to investigate the details, but at this time, it seems that a heated argument led to the tragic loss of two lives.”
Witness Tips Lead to Quick Arrest
Thanks to witness tips, Lorenzo Aleman was taken into custody within five hours of the shooting. Police received several calls from individuals who had seen Aleman leave the scene and provided key details that helped law enforcement track him down.
Aleman was arrested at his home on the west side of San Antonio, where authorities recovered a firearm believed to be the weapon used in the shooting. He was taken into custody without incident and charged with two counts of murder.
Victims Identified: Family Grieves Loss
The victims have been identified as Aleman’s 41-year-old ex-wife and the 31-year-old man she was reportedly dating at the time of the incident. Their names have not yet been publicly released out of respect for their families. However, family members have expressed their heartbreak and grief in response to the senseless violence that took their loved ones.
“Our family is devastated,” said a family member of the 41-year-old victim. “No one should ever lose their life over jealousy. We want justice, and we want the world to know that our loved one was so much more than what happened to her.”
The 31-year-old victim was described by friends as a kind and caring individual, someone who had only recently begun a relationship with the ex-wife and had no history of conflict with Aleman.
Aleman’s Arrest: Legal Consequences and Potential Sentencing
Following his arrest, Lorenzo Aleman has been charged with two counts of murder in the first degree, and additional charges related to the illegal possession of a firearm may also be considered as the investigation continues.
If convicted, Aleman faces a lengthy prison sentence, potentially including life imprisonment without the possibility of parole, depending on the legal proceedings. San Antonio District Attorney’s Office will handle the prosecution, and Aleman will likely be arraigned in the coming days.
Law enforcement officials have said that they are looking into Aleman’s background to determine if there were any previous violent incidents, including prior domestic violence or restraining orders filed by the victims against him.
A Community in Shock: Family, Friends, and Neighbors Mourn
The deaths of both victims have left family, friends, and the San Antonio community in shock. Neighbors near the H-E-B store expressed disbelief that such violence could occur in the relatively quiet parking lot of a busy shopping center.
“I never would have imagined something like this happening here,” said Sandra Ramirez, a nearby resident. “This is a family-friendly area, and now it’s been scarred by violence.”
In response to the tragedy, local residents, businesses, and community leaders have come together to offer support to the families of the victims. Memorials and vigils are planned in the coming days, where loved ones will gather to remember the lives of the victims and seek justice.
Domestic Violence and Jealousy: A Dangerous and Growing Concern
This tragedy highlights the ongoing issue of domestic violence and relationship-driven violence, especially in situations where jealousy and emotional turmoil play a central role. Domestic violence advocates have emphasized the importance of early intervention, especially in cases where one partner becomes violent or obsessive.
“Jealousy, rage, and control can escalate into dangerous behavior,” said Maria Sanchez, a domestic violence advocate based in San Antonio. “We need to continue to educate individuals about healthy relationships and provide resources for those who feel trapped in toxic situations.”
The Investigation: What Happens Next?
While Aleman has been arrested and charged, San Antonio Police have stated that the investigation remains active. Detectives are continuing to interview witnesses, gather evidence, and assess any potential leads that may further explain the circumstances of the shooting.
“We will do everything in our power to ensure justice for the victims and their families,” said Chief McManus. “The community is deeply impacted by these tragedies, and we are committed to finding answers and holding those responsible accountable.”
Calls for Justice: A Grieving Community Seeks Accountability
As the legal process begins, the families of the victims are demanding justice for their loved ones. Supporters of both victims have vowed to seek accountability and to raise awareness about the dangers of unchecked jealousy and domestic violence.
“This kind of violence is unacceptable,” said a family member of the 31-year-old victim. “We want to make sure something like this never happens again.”